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Vincent Harrop

Relationship coach and bestselling author

For husbands on the brink of divorce...

Vincent Harrop

Relationship coach and bestselling author

For husbands on the brink of divorce...

Best-Selling Relationship Expert Reveals a NEW Counterintuitive Approach to Help Men Save Their Marriages

Win Back Your Wife's Respect, Reignite Her Love, and Keep Your Family Together – WITHOUT Expensive Therapy, Groveling, or Compromising Your Masculinity

87,239+ saved marriages

The Attraction Reset

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The Attraction Reset

4.9/5 based on 912 reviews

The Psychology of Female Desire Why women lose interest - and how to rebuild it.
Masculine Presence & Leadership How to stay grounded even when she's stressed, upset, or distant.
The Six Desire Triggers Her mind, emotions, body, and feminine nervous system - decoded.
Seduction Patterns That Actually Work The Build - Hold - Release method that women LOVE.
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Real-Life Scenarios & Scripts "Say this, not that" solutions for actual relationship problems.
Communication That Creates Craving Tone, Pacing, eye contact, and phrasing.
The Intimacy Rhythm Blueprint Weekly and monthly rituals that keep passion alive.
Lifetime access to all the materials – download them, print them and go through them at your own pace

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What Is The Attraction Reset?

The Attraction Reset isn't about groveling, compromising your masculinity, or ignoring your own needs in the relationship.

Instead, it's about understanding your wife's deepest desires and helping your marriage thrive.

This 203-page guide is filled with battle-tested relationship strategies to help you and your wife enjoy these incredible benefits:

Rekindled respect: Your wife will look at you with newfound admiration and appreciation.
Reignited passion: You'll know exactly how to bring back the spark and intimacy to your marriage.
Deeper emotional connection: You'll learn how to truly understand and meet your wife's emotional needs.
Effective communication: Arguments will be replaced by productive conversations that bring you closer.
Renewed commitment: You'll discover the keys to rebuilding trust and strengthening your bond.
Personal growth: You'll become the best version of yourself, which will naturally improve your marriage.
Family unity: Your children will benefit from a stable, loving home environment.

And most importantly, you can become the strong, compassionate husband who effortlessly LEADS your relationship to success.

The Dark Side of Conventional Marriage Advice

When traditional marriage counseling doesn't seem to work, many men feel lost and hopeless about saving their relationships.

This often leads to desperate measures that don't require much effort but can severely damage the marriage further.

But as with any quick fix, these approaches come at a high cost as well.

The negative effects of poor marriage advice are well-documented and can be devastating to a man's self-esteem and his relationship.

Here are just some of the short- and long-term consequences of following bad advice:

Loss of respect from your wife, feelings of emasculation, breakdown in communication, increased resentment, loss of intimacy, and a deepening divide between partners.

But perhaps the biggest consequence is that these misguided attempts to fix things often push your wife further away.

If you're constantly apologizing, giving in to her every demand, or trying to "nice" your way back into her heart, the spark will inevitably die out, and you'll be left feeling even more disconnected and unappreciated...

This means that many of the challenges you face in your marriage won't simply disappear by following conventional wisdom or outdated advice.

Save Your Marriage the Right Way With The Attraction Reset

I'm Vincent Harrop, a relationship coach and best-selling author with over 25 years of experience helping men transform their marriages.

I've personally experienced the pain of a failing marriage and discovered the secrets to turning it around and creating a thriving partnership.

After years of research, personal experience, and working with countless couples, I've developed proven strategies that will help you win back your wife's respect, reignite her love, and keep your family together.

Those same relationship-saving techniques, which you can find in The Attraction Reset, that are now empowering husbands around the world to rescue their marriages from the brink of divorce.

Want to see chapter breakdowns? Scroll down past the testimonials.

Impressions from Other Husbands Who Have Already Read the Guide...

This guide didn't just save my marriage...

My wife told me she 'wasn't in love with me anymore' and wanted a separation. I was devastated. I stumbled across this guide and the 'reigniting her love' chapter spoke directly to my situation. I realized I'd been neglecting her emotional needs for years. The '5 love language mastery strategies' opened my eyes - Her primary love language was acts of service, and I'd been trying to show love through telling her. I started doing little things around the house without being asked, surprising her with her favorite coffee in the morning, and planning date nights. Last night, she cuddled up to me on the couch - something she hasn't done in months - and whispered 'I feel so much closer to you recently and I don't know why, but I don't want it to change.' I honestly teared up. This guide didn't just save my marriage, it's helping me become a better man and husband.

Now I feel so much better...

Our biggest problem was the lack of intimacy and constant fighting. I felt like my wife didn't respect me anymore. Now I feel so much better, I am much more attentive to her needs and finding ways to connect. I also notice that my wife's behavior is a reflection of how I lead the relationship, so I'm trying to be as strong and compassionate as possible. Thank you for all of your advice, it's helped a lot.

I have been freed from guilt...

The biggest issue was the emotional distance between us. It felt like we were just roommates, not husband and wife. Now everything is more loving, with understanding and recognition of each other's needs. I feel more confident and even more consistent in my approach to our marriage. I have been freed from guilt and the feeling of failure as a husband.

It felt like we were dating again...

I was at my wit's end. After 12 years of marriage, my wife and I were barely speaking. I'd come home from work, she'd be glued to her phone, and we'd eat dinner in silence. I thought divorce was inevitable. The 'effective communication strategies' section of this guide was a game-changer for us. I learned how to really listen to her without getting defensive. The mirroring technique helped me understand her perspective for the first time in years. Last week, we had a two-hour conversation about our relationship - no arguing, just honest talk. It felt like we were dating again. We're not out of the woods yet, but for the first time in a long time, I feel hopeful about our future together.

Curious About What You're Getting?

Here's Everything You'll Get in The Last-Ditch Marriage Saver for Men TODAY

Part 1: The Psychology of Female Desire

First, I'll walk you through the unique needs and desires of women in relationships so you can understand why and how your wife thinks and feels differently than you do.

You will learn about:

Unlock her emotional & physical desire: By creating nervous-system safety, the foundation that makes her soften and open.
Build masculine-feminine polarity: Through grounded presence, stillness, direction and emotional steadiness.
Trigger excitement & anticipation: Using micro-novelty, unpredictability, tension, and emotional stimulation.

This part of the system will give you a strong foundation that will make everything else easier – from communication to intimacy to resolving conflicts and rebuilding trust.

Part 2: Masculine Presence & Leadership

This module teaches men the core skill that women respond to more than anything else: grounded masculine leadership. When a man can hold his center, read her emotional world, and guide the moment with confidence, her entire nervous system softens.

You’ll learn how to lead emotionally, physically, and energetically in a way that makes her feel safe, desired, and able to relax into her feminine fully.

This is where men shift from reacting to leading — a transformation she feels instantly

You'll learn how to:

Show calm emotional leadership: so her emotions settle into your steadiness instead of spiraling or creating distance.
Communicate direction: So you can confidently guide your relationship without being controlling or domineering
Shift between 3 masculine states:
(grounded, directed, charged) so she feels both safe and irresistibly drawn to you..

Once you've regained your wife's respect, she'll be far more open to reconnecting with you emotionally and physically.

Part 3: Six Desire Triggers

This module reveals the six psychological, emotional, and physical switches that activate a woman’s desire instantly. These aren’t tricks — they’re the biological and emotional triggers her body is wired to respond to.

When you understand how to use presence, tension, eye contact, touch, and novelty in the right order, her desire becomes predictable instead of inconsistent.

This module turns “I don’t know what she wants” into “I finally understand exactly how she responds.”

Use presence, tension, and pacing: To stimulate her emotional and physical arousal without pressure or force.

Lead with confident direction: So she feels clarity, certainty, and masculine intention - the energy that awakens her feminine desire.

Introduce micro-novelty: To reset her dopamine system and keep her attraction high in long term relationships.

After you implement the strategies from this part, your wife will no longer feel emotionally disconnected or unloved. She'll feel cherished, desired, and deeply connected to you.

Part 4: Communication That Creates Craving

This module shows men how to speak in a way that hits a woman’s emotional, mental, and physical attraction system all at once. Most men communicate logically — women respond emotionally.

Here, you’ll learn the four layers of communication women actually feel: information, emotion, intention, and energy. When you combine warmth, direction, and tension in your words, your communication becomes irresistibly attractive.

This is where men unlock the ability to create closeness, spark desire, and build sexual anticipation — just with their voice.

In this part, you will learn:

Use emotional tone, pacing, and presence : So your words create connection instead of conflict or confusion

Lead with masculine intention: The kind of clear direction woman respond to instantly ("come here" , "sit with me", Look at me").

Add Charged energy to your communication: Using pauses, eye contact, and slow delivery that turns simple words into pure tension.

After implementing these strategies, you and your wife will no longer struggle with miscommunication and constant arguments. This will have a ripple effect on your entire family, as there will be less tension and more harmony in your home.

Part 5: The Intimacy Rhythm Blueprint

This module teaches men how to build a predictable rhythm of emotional and sexual connection — the rhythm women need for desire to stay alive long-term.

Most couples lose passion because intimacy becomes random, rushed, or inconsistent. Here, you’ll learn the weekly structure that keeps her connected, open, flirty, and responsive without needing constant effort.

When you lead with connection, spark, and novelty, her desire rises naturally and consistently.

In this part, you'll learn:

Create a Weekly Flow: Of connection, flirtation, and novelty that keeps her emotionally close and sexually open.

Use "Connection Night," Flirt Signal Day, and micro-novelty to reset her nervous system, spark desire, and maintain passion.

Build momentum : Instead of relying on spontaneity, giving her the emotional consistency that fuels long-term sexual attraction.

Once you've rekindled the spark in your marriage, you'll find that many other aspects of your relationship will improve as well.

Part 6: Seduction Patterns That Actually Work

This module teaches men the emotional and physical rhythms women naturally respond to — the patterns that make desire feel effortless, exciting, and inevitable.

Seduction isn’t about technique or aggression. It’s about emotional leadership: slowing down, creating anticipation, building tension, and guiding the moment with confidence.

When you understand the Build → Hold → Release pattern, her body reacts automatically. This is where seduction becomes predictable instead of guesswork.

In this part, you'll learn:

Use The Core Seduction Pattern: Build - Hold - Release so she feels desire rising long before any physical escalation happens.
Create tension: Through pacing, eye contact, whispering, and pauses giving her the "almost but not yet" feeling woman crave.
Lead with subtle seduction: Patterns like the Slow pull in, Whisper Curve, Push-Pull, Guided Touch, and room shift - proven rhythms that awaken feminine desire.

These strategies will help you create a solid foundation of trust in your marriage, allowing both you and your wife to feel secure and committed to each other.

Part 7: Real Life Scenarios & Scripts

This module gives men the exact words, actions, and responses to use in real situations — the moments where most men freeze, overthink, or unintentionally kill polarity.

You’ll learn how to handle her stress, distance, teasing, emotional shifts, and moments of intimacy with calm masculine confidence.

Every scenario teaches you how to lead the moment, communicate with warmth + direction, and reset her emotional and sexual openness on the spot.

In this part, you'll learn:

Respond to her emotions with grounded presence: Using tone, touch, and simple phrases that instantly soften her and rebuild connection.
Use masculine direction and warm dominance: ("come here" , "Look at me", "Slow Down") to shift her state without pressure or conflict.
Apply real scripts: For stress, distance, intimacy,teasing, and emotional tension, giving you the exact words and energy she naturally responds to.

By stepping into your role as a family leader, you'll not only improve your marriage but also create a stable, loving environment for your children.

Part 8: The Passion Revival System

This module shows men exactly how to reignite passion in relationships that feel flat, routine, or disconnected — and how to keep that passion alive for years.

Most men think long-term desire fades naturally. It doesn’t. Desire fades when emotional rhythm, polarity, novelty, and masculine leadership break down.

Inside this module, you’ll discover the four pillars that keep a woman soft, affectionate, flirty, and sexually enthusiastic — not just at the start, but long after the honeymoon phase is over.

In this part, you'll learn:

Rebuild long-term passion using the 4 pillars: Masculine leadership, emotional attunement, erotic tension, and micro-novelty.
Use the Monthly Passion System to reset connection, spark excitement, and keep your relationship feeling alive instead of routine.
Create ongoing desire though small shifts in tone, energy, touch, and playfulness- the subtle changes that stimulate her body and mind long term.

These strategies will help you avoid falling back into old patterns and ensure that your marriage continues to thrive.

I know that I cover A LOT in this guide, and I don't want you to be overwhelmed by all the new ideas you get to help save your marriage.

To make it easy and quick for you to implement the strategies you'll learn in the guide in your own life, I designed a variety of templates, checklists and action plans that you can use to create bulletproof systems and habits in your marriage.

I created templates for Communication Improvement, Date Night Ideas, Trust-Building Exercises, and so much more.

You'll get all of these directly in the guide.

In The Attraction Reset, I really thought of everything – and I know you'll find these strategies as valuable as I did when it came to saving my own marriage.

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I'm Vincent Harrop and I've Been Helping Men Save Their Marriages for the Past 25 Years

I started out as a struggling husband myself...

My own marriage was on the brink of divorce...

I couldn't communicate effectively with my wife...

She had lost all respect for me...

Our intimacy had disappeared...

We were constantly fighting...

But I Always Managed to Turn Things Around – With Lasting Results

When men at workshops started asking me to give them something they could read at home, I started writing books.

I ended up writing 12 relationship books, most of which topped the national bestseller lists and competed with titles like "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus."

Just a fraction of the books I've sold - each one represents a marriage saved

Over the past 25 years, more than 80,000 men have read my books or attended my lectures.

My work has been featured across every major media outlet through articles and radio shows

This Created a Ripple Effect Throughout North America

All of a sudden, journalists from Canada, the UK, and Australia started interviewing me, and men from all over the English-speaking world started reaching out to me for help.

I wanted to help – so I expanded my reach through online coaching and webinars.

I helped thousands of men through YouTube videos and interviews.

Over the years, I also worked with over 500 couples 1-on-1 that came to me as "their last hope."

I provided intensive marriage counseling, worked with both husband and wife for a week, and solved their challenges.

How the Attraction Reset Was Born

I discovered these marriage-saving strategies because of my deep interest in relationship psychology, which guided me throughout my career.

I first tested the strategies myself, to see which ones helped me save my own marriage.

I continued developing them while working with couples facing similar challenges for over 25 years – in counseling sessions, workshops, and homes all over North America.

I spent thousands of hours learning from my mentors, reading all sorts of different books on relationships, psychology, and personal growth.

I tested hundreds of different approaches to see what works and what doesn't.

Over time, I developed my own marriage-saving toolbox that helped me PREDICTABLY and CONSISTENTLY get men to understand their wives' needs and save their marriages.

And today, I am sharing them with you in The Attraction reset.

Less Than The Cost Of A Single Counseling Session

A 1-hour session with a marriage counselor or therapist costs around $150-$200 per hour on average.

And that's for a SINGLE session. With no guarantee that the counselor's approach works for your specific situation.

If you booked 10 sessions, you'd easily spend $1,500 or more...

With more than 33 tailor-made strategies in the Attraction Reset, it would be reasonable to charge even a tenth of that, that's $150.

But I don't want the cost to stop any man from getting the help he needs to save his marriage. That's why I didn't price the guide at $150, $100 or even at $50.

You can try it out, 100% risk-free, at a special introductory price of just $27. This barely covers my costs.

And I believe it's a small price to pay for something that will bring you and your wife lasting happiness, love, and a thriving marriage that you both deserve.

Many of my customers have said that the guide was worth far more than the cost.

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The Attraction Reset

4.9/5 based on 912 reviews

The Psychology of Female Desire why women lose interest - and how to rebuild it.
Masculine Presence & Leadership how to stay grounded even when she's stressed, upset, or distant.
The Six Desire Triggers Her mind, emotions, body, and feminine nervous system - decoded
Seduction Patterns that Actually Work the Build - Hold - Release method that women Love.
Conflict Resolution Strategies to end arguments and create harmony
Real-Life Scenarios & Scripts "Say this, not that" solutions for actual relationship problems.
Communication That Creates Craving Tone, Pacing, Eye contact, and phrasing,
Lifetime access to all the materials – download them, print them and go through them at your own pace

60-Day Money Back Guarantee

I want you to read the whole guide completely risk free… not just for a day, a week, or a month, but for a full 60 days so you can go through it at your own pace.

If, for any reason, you're not 100% satisfied with the guide… If you don't feel like it's the single best resource on saving your marriage you've ever read… If it doesn't help you reconnect with your wife… If it doesn't absolutely exceed your expectations…

Then I don't want you to have to pay for it.

Simply send me an e-mail to help.vincentharrop.com any time within 60 days of your purchase and my team will refund your full investment. No questions asked.

Plus, you get to keep the guide – it's on me.

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frequently asked questions

What if I don't have time to implement this system right now?

Before I answer this question, let me ask you this first: how much time would you SAVE if you didn't have to deal with daily arguments, cold silences, and a failing marriage? If it's a significant amount of time (and stress!), then I think you and I both know what you need to do. The guide will take you less than two hours to read and then you'll be able to implement the strategies gradually in your daily life. Now, if you're about to go on a 10-day work trip… that's not really a problem either. The materials will wait for you until you return; just make sure you get them now before we increase the price. Plus, you have a whole 60 days to try the guide 100% risk-free.

My wife is already talking about divorce, is it too late for this to work?

It's never too late to save your marriage as long as you're both still living under the same roof. I've worked with countless couples who were on the brink of divorce and managed to turn things around. The system has been tried and tested on thousands of marriages in crisis. I've made sure that it's effective even in the most challenging situations. My recommendation is to give it a try. You have nothing to lose and I'm convinced you'll be amazed by how effective these strategies are for your situation.

I already tried counseling and it didn't help, why would this be any different?

I get this question all the time. And my answer is always the same. I've been studying and working in this field for over 25 years now. I wrote 12 books about it and have personally tested these tools on thousands of couples. Trust me when I say this – by now I've made all my materials so comprehensive and effective that I have yet to see them fail when applied correctly. You'll be surprised by how well and how quickly this system will work for you. But don't take my word for it – see for yourself. Try the guide, and if it doesn't absolutely exceed your expectations, e-mail my team, and they'll refund your full investment – no questions asked.

How will I receive the product?

You will receive all the materials in a digital format via email. Since you will receive the materials via email, you can of course access them anytime and anywhere you wish. Once you receive the materials, they are yours to keep. You can also print them out and save them in physical form or make visual reminders out of them to help you stay consistent.

Will this system work if we've been married for a long time / short time?

The contents of the system are intended for marriages of all lengths. These are proven relationship techniques that work, regardless of how long you've been married. Some even work to improve long-term friendships and family relationships!

I'm not sure general marriage advice will work, as every relationship is unique. Will this system actually help me?

I totally agree with you. Your marriage is different from all others. And this is really not a bad thing! It just means that there are universal principles that apply to all relationships, and the methods in this guide are based on those principles. The relationship techniques I will share with you are based on the psychological patterns and responses of many couples I have worked with in my 25-year career. Regardless of their unique situations and challenges, some things remain the same and work. They are rooted in human nature and psychology. Therefore, I am sure that you will learn something new, that you will better understand your wife and yourself, and that you will gain new approaches and techniques that will make your marriage stronger and more fulfilling.

Can I buy this product as a gift?

Absolutely! You can order it and then e-mail us at [email protected] to transfer ownership to the person you want to gift it to.

What if I am not satisfied with the product?

If you are not satisfied with the product, please notify us at help.vincentharrop.com within 60 days of purchase and get your money back. We only ask that you review and actually try to use the content in practice before requesting a refund.

Instant Access: The Attraction Reset

just $27.00 now - PRICE GOING UP to $149.99 SOON!

The Attraction Reset

4.9/5 based on 912 reviews

The Psychology of Female Desire why women lose interest - and how to rebuild it.
Masculine Presence & Leadership how to stay grounded even when she's stressed, upset, or distant.
The Six Desire Triggers Her mind, emotions, body, and feminine nervous system - decoded
Seduction Patterns that Actually Work the Build - Hold - Release method that women Love.
Conflict Resolution Strategies to end arguments and create harmony
Real-Life Scenarios & Scripts "Say this, not that" solutions for actual relationship problems.
Communication That Creates Craving Tone, Pacing, Eye contact, and phrasing,
Lifetime access to all the materials – download them, print them and go through them at your own pace.

~~Regular Price: $149.99~~

TODAY ONLY $27

60-Day Money Back Guarantee

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